[FINAL UPDATE] My [24M] girlfriend [21F] keeps threatening to kill herself if we break up

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1st update

First of all, I want to say how grateful I am for all the support you have given me. I was seriously ready to just give up on life and live my life like that. So thank you, kind internet strangers.

Second of all, I need to say that I did not expect to get so much abuse. The amount of people calling me a p*ssy or abusing me in messages and telling me that I deserve it was sickening and it really shows that there's a stigma about men in abusive relationships.

Now onto the update. I texted her yesterday and told her that I want to meet her today. I didn't tell her why obviously, because she would have declined. I left to go there early in the morning, picked up my parents and drove to hers. Not gonna lie, my heart was absolutely pounding the whole drive. I knew that it wasn't gonna be easy and that it's not gonna be nice, but I was finally fed up.

When I got there, my parents waited for me in the car and I just went straight to her and started talking. I told her that this is it. That the relationship is over and that I don't want spend not even one more second being with her. I told her that she absolutely crushed me and destroyed my confidence and that I can't live like this anymore.

She started crying and screaming insults at me. She obviously started saying that she's gonna kill herself. For the first time ever I just calmly told her that she's an adult and that she can do whatever she wants. That no matter what she says or do, I just won't stay with her anymore. I could see that she was shocked and I was trying my absolute best not to start crying. I knew that I needed to be strong now. I told her to throw away all the stuff of mine that she still might have and not to contact me anymore. I wished her good luck and left. I didn't even let her say anything. And I just felt like the biggest asshole ever. But I knew it was the right thing.

I went back into my car, told my parents that it's done and we talked for a bit. I blocked her on all social media, I made all my accounts private, I have a new phone number and I'm gonna look into getting some therapy, because I'm honestly not sure where to go next in life. But I know one thing for sure, I'm gonna take some time off work next week and go on a trip somewhere. Something that I haven't been able to do in more than 2 years.

Thank you again for all your support. Your guys' kind words are what finally made me realize that I can't live like this anymore. I know that it's gonna be hard. I know that she will try to make contact. But I'm gonna make it.


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