I'm serious here. One of my employees, a guy near his 30s, has a mother who constantly butts into his work life, trying to pressure me into giving him a raise or more hours. She has convinced herself that she's helping but good god she's not.
Were it not for the fact I've seen and heard him arguing with his mother to get the fuck out of his work life and every time she does so he apologizes and begs me to ignore her, I'd have let him go long ago, and I see the mental and emotional stress this puts him under. One time his mother went behind his back to contact me... If it was anyone else I'd have assumed they asked her to do it and I would've gotten started on the paperwork to let them go right then and there.
For the love of God, get the fuck out of your children's work life. The job market today is NOTHING like the job market when you were their age, your advice is obsolete and worthless, you are actively harming your child's employment opportunities every time you speak to their boss thinking you're doing it on their behalf and every time I see someone's mother (its always the mother, never the father) try to harass me into hiring their kid, I throw their application into the trash.
Stay out of your children's work life. You are barging into your child's adult life to drag them back into being children in front of their peers, shattering all respect they've built up among their peers and setting them up for humiliation and a swift firing.
To answer the most common questions.
1: I wont fire him because he's a good employee just with an over-possessive mother. There is a lot more nuance to this whole situation than can't be laid out in a Reddit post.
2: I have told her to stop calling and visiting, I have told her it only negatively effects her child. She is a narcissistic karen to the bone though and it goes in one ear and out the other.
3: I was wrong, it is sometimes the fatherswho pull this shit, but in all my personal experience and I'd say, most other instances of this happening, it is the mother who pulls this crap.
Holy shitballs this made it on to r/all
Okay before you delete me because it’s related to abortion hear me out. I don’t care which side of the argument you’re on. ProLife, ProChoice, whatever, more power to you. I’m just specifically saying if you ARE ProLife, you have to object in vitro fertilization.
IVF clinics trash more fertilized eggs a year than abortion clinics. The entire process is them fertilizing a certain amount of eggs, transplanting the ones least likely to have genetic problems into the mother, and tossing the rest and/or freezing them and then tossing them later if the parents decide not to try again. If you believe life begins at conception, i.e. fertilization, then any embryo that does not get implanted is murdered the same way an aborted embryo is murdered.
The only reason people don’t make a huge deal out of it like they do with Planned Parenthood or other family planning clinics is because it’s EXPENSIVE. It’s for upper middle class and above. Meanwhile, abortion is often seen as a lower class problem.
So anyway, pick whichever side you want, but whatever side you pick, actually follow through on those beliefs. Don’t make exceptions for the shiny new thing.
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