We have been in a relationship for 1 year and we had a baby boy last week. I had a natural birth and my bf was there throughout the whole process. I screamed A LOT and each time I did he whispered something like "can you stop screaming, you're really embarrassing me". I also threw up a few times and I saw him cover his face in shame. When I held the midwife's hand for comfort he whispered "let go of her, stop being so embarrassing". He also said that my birthing position was embarrassing and called me a few vulgar names.

I'm really upset about his behaviour that day, especially when it was when I needed his support the most. When I try to talk to him about it he denies ever saying it and that I'm being silly...

If you don't hire people who you think are good and fit for the job just because they are in a minority that's discrimination but it should be the same for people who only hire people in a minority just so they can have representation. If two people have equal qualifications but hire the minority I can understand that but if you hire someone who doesn't have the correct qualifications but just need to fill in a checklist of minorities that's not right.

Edit: I'm no longer responding to comments it's just a waste of time and I've got things to do.