My husband 'Justin' started spending a lot of time inside the bathroom after we moved into our new home....We're talking 45min for just "peeing" 4-5 times a day. It's so irritating but since he uses the guests bathroom, this only annoyed me when I'm waiting for him to eat or go out or do anything together or even when we have guests over.

Days ago, he took me out for dinner after he got off work. We get to the restaurant, Sat at the table and look at the menu. Once the waitress came and took our orders. Justin started looking around saying he needed to go to the restroom. I felt something was wrong and kept worrying about him wanting to use the restroom and staying there for a long time. So before he went, I gently reminded him that we were at a restaurant therefor he shouldn't take too long inside the restroom. he made a face and told me to knock it off because he'd be back in a minute.

10 minutes passed and I felt annoyed. Another 8 or so passed and he was still in there. I literally started calling his phone and texting him to get out when our order arrived. I was getting fed up and the food was getting cold so I entered the men's restroom looking embarrassed as hell and coming behind each door asking if he was in there. Til he replied that he'd be out in few seconds.

I went back to the table and started eating after over 5 minutes of waiting. I called his phone one last time after I was finished but he hung up on me. I was very very upset I just asked the waitress to split the bill, paid, left a tip and walked out. I got home by uber (I can't drive for my medical condition) and nearly 20 minutes later Justin got home looking upset asking what the heck I just did. He asked why I left him there and went home all a sudden. I told him he was taking too much time in the restroom and had me wait for nearly 40min while dinner was cold and I was starving. He pitched a fit and gave a lecture about how selfish I was to abandon him there even though I called and he hung up but he said his battery died. He said he thought our meal was going to take time so he went to use the restroom and I should've waited for him a little longer after I notified him about the meal but I was too selfish. I snapped and said this will in fact be the last time we go out for dinner if he's going to act like that. This was irrating not just for me but the public as well, Imagine keeping the restroom busy for 40 minutes where customers need it. Thank goodness the place wasn't packed. I told him that and he gave me the nastiest look I've ever seen and said I was at fault for leaving and ruining our dinner together. he said he was only upset that I paid for my dinner even though he was the one who invited me out.

Should I have just waited?

Edit to say that he doesn't have a medical condition, otherwise I would've mentioned it. And yes he takes his phone with him every time.

Edit 2 I forgot to mention our ages. I'm 28 and he's 32. We've been married for over a year.