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AITA for telling my surrogate to stop acting like she was my husband's wife?

My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We wanted kids but because of my health problems this wasn't possible. We decided to go with surrogacy, my friend nominated her sister ( Brittany 29) I agreed right away cause I know Brittany and the family. We've set everything up. Discussed payment, short and long term plans, counseling and dr appointments. We explored IVF and chose a private clininc to get it done.

It started after Brittany took a pregnancy test. She only told my husband though she had both our numbers. she only sent my husband a pic of the test while he was at work and sent me nothing when I gave her my personal contact info but it was okay. Things got complicated when Brittany started having access to our credit cards for her own wants and claim they were the baby's needs. She excluded me from dr visits and scans and had only my husband go with her. Her excuse was my husband drives and has time since I work and "unavailable" most of the time. I felt isolated from this experience but said nothing knowing she's bearing a lot of burden so I had patience. My husband had no idea what was going on and if this was normal. This was new to us so we didn't know.

She's 7 months in and last week she had us visit to discuss things that I thought we'd previously agreed on but she said she changed her mind about and her mom was there too. I heard Brittany out and was shocked when she gave a list of how things should be from now on since she said "there was lot of confusion" in the past cause of me stressing her out by complaining. She requested she gets say in things like baby name after I "deleted" the list of names she sent to my husband. She wanted more access to my husband's credit cards/free time to get stuff done at her place. Also more time with the baby than agreed on. Then wrapped up by saying only my husband should be with her in the delivery room and used the hospital as excuse. I got up and firmly stated I don't agree on her new terms and that she had to stop acting like she was my husband's wife and this was their baby. My husband didn't speak til she started crying. He asked me to sit down but I said I had boundaries, reminded her what her role was and how she overstepped.

Her mom went off and and said her daughter was being mistreated when she put herself mentally and physically through the most selfless act for us, to make us a family. She gave up a part of her life in those months to give us what we want and I was acting selfish and ungrateful. She had us leave then told my friend and it got more complicated. I was told to apologize for what i said. IATA

Edit: yes, we agreed on paying for the surrogacy like I stated above. So no favors or anything.

Edit: No, we did not have a legal contract because my friend said there was no need for us to do that and basically talked us out of it since we are considered family but we had an agreement including paying her.

Edit: Question about whether Brittany had kids of her own. She was a single mom of a 4 year old who passed away from an accident. She had him at young age but she always seemed in good mental and physical health.

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These straws made out of pasta so they don't dissolve like paper

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Kissing your kids in the mouth is not normal. Kindly stop it.

Some people like kissing the kids on the mouth. Their own. That’s gross. Why would you kiss your child on the mouth. How long do you intend to do that? Kindly stop.

Edit. I do not think it’s sexual. It’s just gross.

Whoever says it’s okay. Kindly stop kissing children. Even if it’s your own.

And there is a reason why it’s called UNPOPULAR OPINION.

Edit. Well I have triggered a lot of people. Kiizzzzzzzzz your children good for you. Trauma has therapy. Go ahead. Good for you.

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Poland "Stop Totalitarianism" for the 77th warsaw uprising anniversary

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MAGAs get ejected from Texas Rangers game for unfurling a large trump won flag.

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Bartender shows off her skills

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He's too smart to be kept alive

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Not sure if this counts but I thought it was funny and it made me face palm

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