I told him that I didn't tighten my oil pan screw too tight and he was appalled that I did such a thing and went behind my back and tightened it. Well rule number fucking one of tightening your oil pan screw is DONT OVER TIGHTEN IT. this man never changed his oil, and just recently started working on big machinery due to his job. This is my first brand new car and I wanted to change the oil myself and I've been telling him through out our entire 14 year relationship to change his oil. But I digress.. because this is my like dream car, I made sure I watched two or 3 different videos on how to do it and read two separate articles. It's not rocket science, it's incredibly easy, it's an effing oil change on a jeep wrangler. The easiest car to work on.

From the beginning he was mansplaining me. I told him I need a 1/2, he told me to use a 13mm (the 1/2 fit the best) he had to make sure to open my hood and was trying to hover. I told him that I got it and to go do whatever. Again, this man has NEVER changed his oil. But because he is a man and because I am a female, he over ruled my actions. Today I went to change the oil again and this fucker went behind my back to "fix" the issue but in him "fixing" it, he actually made it next to impossible to get the damn screw out. Even today when I told him I wasn't going to tighten it until it's as tight as I can get it and again, he got a horrified look on his face like idk what I'm doing. Right now, I'm not sure that we will be able to get it out with out stripping the screw. His solution, "I'll use the impact driver" like what? No... don't use that... thats how we will end up replacing the whole oil pan.

If you are a man reading this, if your wife or girlfriend tells you that they got something, they got it. Unfortunately this isn't an isolated incident.