Look, drown me in downvotes if you’d like. I know it’s not sensitive to everyone’s cultures and I know I’m going to come off pretty racist here. I want it to be known: I have no problem with black people or and people of color in my day to day life.

But when I get to work, I get a feeling in the pit of my stomach every time I get a table of mostly black people. As a white man I can’t imagine what POC go through every day in this world. But they are the absolute worst customers to serve, almost all the time. I feel like I have to be overly hospitable or they will think I’m giving them worse service. I have had POC ask me ‘so what, we don’t get waters?’ because I was busy and did not get a chance to drop waters yet. Black people normally have outrageous requests for every minuscule detail they can think of. Many people of color, I feel, test just how much they can get out of me before I have to say something, then making me look like a racist to anyone else around. Most POC are very rude, and while I understand you have to adapt and survive any way you can, it’s very disrespect to talk to me out of line simply because I am supposed to be serving you and have to be kind to keep my job. And, historically, black people are worse tippers overall, tips I rely on to pay my bills and feed my family.

I treat every customer with the same respect. But I too often have lines crossed and my patience tested by tables with people of color.

Edit: well this blew up. Sorry if I don’t get back to you, it’s hard being a star for a day on reddit. Thanks for the awards and your precious time, I hope we al took something from the conversation here.

Showering at night ensures you won't get into bed with your day's sweat and dirt and so your sheets will be cleaner plus you yourself would feel more relaxed going to sleep. Plus it saves you time in the morning and I usually feel wake enough with just a nice cold facewash . My mom however doesn't like this and since morning baths are such a norm I decided to post here.

Edit: Okay sorry guys didn't know it had been posted before.

Like for example walking almost three miles across the city at an ungodly hour just to meet up with her or something. Just an example, definitely not anecdotal.