To clarify, I’m a 24 y/o female.

“Dress like a hoe”≠ “is a hoe” this is about the parents. Stop being pieces of shit and protect your children. Also thanks for the awards and upvotes 👌🏻 insomnia is what drives my crazy polarizing posts.

I understand body positivity, not shaming people for what they wear/how they look, and I wholeheartedly agree that no one is EVER “asking for it” based on what they wear but….

Your 14 year old daughter does not need to walk into the dentist with 3 inches of her ass cheeks hanging out of her shorts. Seriously. Wearing whatever you want in regards to showing bits should be 18+. No, it’s not the same as a swimsuit because you wouldn’t wear that to a dental office or anywhere that requires a certain amount of clothing.

Side note: my mother was extremely overbearing of my clothing choices. I wore knee length plaid shorts or boys shorts, swim suits had to be a one piece or a tankini with a skirt or shorts for the bottom. I wore my first bikini at 16 with my mother’s approval. She was extremely toxic when it came to my body/body image. She is not the same with my sister (16). I will acknowledge that MAYBE this comes into play with my realm of thought. But 14 is not the age to dress like a hoe. Not sorry about it. That shit is DANGEROUS. There are EXTREMELY sick people out there and while it doesn’t matter what you’re wearing to you, it’s a big deal to them.