So I lost the case.
I wasn’t expecting to get so many replies. I read every single one and I want to thank you all. Breaking up wasn’t even a thought on my mind but seeing men saying they wouldn’t allow their friends to say that and women saying they wouldn’t tolerate that helped me be more confident in bringing it up to my boyfriend because I wasn’t planning on it.
Last night I sat him down and I told him that I overheard his conversation with his friends and how what they said was really hurtful and it stung worse that he didn’t defend me and just laughed. At first he denied it ever happened and I got upset and almost cried because I felt so frustrated.
Then he admitted it and said it was just a dumb joke and he forgot about it five minutes later. Then he said that his friends opinions wouldn’t matter so much to me if I didn’t care about their thoughts on my physical appearance. I said I don’t care what they think it’s the fact that they said it and you sat there and laughed. He said that he finds me attractive if that’s what I want to hear so badly and that if my friends said he was a butterface he wouldn’t care because he isn’t attracted to them and since I care, I must have some sort of attraction to his friends...
I got up and said that we’re done. How is he gonna flip this on me and make it seem like I want to be with his friends because their comment upset me. His reaction is what upset me. He said that if I’m breaking up with him because his friends think I’m unattractive then I’m doing him the biggest favor of his life.
So we’re over. I’m moving in with my sister in her spare guest room. I’m so heartbroken. His reaction wasn’t what I thought it was going to be. I don’t want to end things with him thinking I like his friends but I guess it is what it is. I’m moving on. He doesn’t care about me and I wasted two years over him. It’s whatever, I’m not interesting isn’t dating now but there’s more fish in the sea.
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