So my husband (27) and I (25) have been together for four years, married for two. Throughout those four years our sex is pretty much daily, either hour long sessions or a quick five minute session.
I’m now pregnant (five months)) and things have slowed down to every other day. My hormones are crazy right now but I get the worse back pain after sex so I get to space it out. My husband has a very high libido so whenever we don’t have sex, he masturbates
Well last night he sat me down and said that he doesn’t know if he can wait the 6 week period after giving birth. He reminded me of the weeklong trip I took to my parents house without him two years ago and how he made his dick bleed from masturbating so much since we weren’t together. That was the longest time we’ve been apart.
He asked for head everyday during the 6 week break. Then he asked if I would consider a C section so we couldn’t have to take a break. I was like... no. With a baby, especially the first month or so, me giving you head will be a weekly occurrence. And I’m not getting a C section unless it’s an emergency.
He got upset and said that I’ve kept up with his sex drive for years and now I’m leaving him in the dust. And that his brothers told him that this would happen after I got pregnant and married. I don’t understand, after the 6 week period I’ll probably be horny as hell and want to fuck like rabbits. It’s not like I’m icing him out forever, but obviously with a new lifestyle change our sex life will be less frequent.
I told him that even after the six week period, with a baby and working from home we will probably only be intimate two or three times a week or maybe go a week without sex. This upset him further and we haven’t really talked unless it’s about the baby since. I’m too embarrassed to ask my irl friends for advice, that’s why I’m on here.
Edit: To all the comments about the C-section, like I stated I’m NOT getting one unless it’s an emergency. That’s completely out of the question and just his dumb suggestion to shorten the window of time, don’t think I would actually go through with it. I did learn that it would’ve been the same amount of time either way, I didn’t know that before so you learn something new everyday.
Edit two: wow 700 comments, I expected to get a handful. I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection tonight. I’ve decided to speak to my OBGYN at my appointment tomorrow about seeing a family or pregnancy therapist for myself since he refuses to go. Your comments were helpful but maybe a professional will be more helpful. And the abuse comments, my husband is NOT abusive. He’s never laid a hand on me. Rarely yells. He’s so attentive and buy me gifts and flowers weekly. He’s a big teddy bear and a sweetheart, he’s just aggressive sexually. It wasn’t a major problem but I can see that now it needs to be addressed because life is getting real. I won’t hold it against him because I know he can change and be better. And the comments suggesting flesh lights, I’ve bought him plenty and he uses them daily, but just for masturbation, he doesn’t consider it to be sex.
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