So my wife and I separated five months ago and she moved in with her girlfriend she was cheating on me with that led her to discover she wasn’t straight but lesbian. I should start off by saying this woman always gave me bad vibes, mainly because she is ditsy and irresponsible and avoids taking responsibility.
Anyhow. My wife has had our son the last few months during quarantine. Now that summer is coming and some states are starting to return to somewhat normal, I asked her to return him to me for some visitation. We are NOT divorced and as such we have no official custody agreement.
Honestly my hope was that my wife would realize she missed me and our marriage and would come home but now I am preparing to finally let go.
Anyways I went to pick up my son and took him home. I had to change his diaper and right away I noticed that his penis was very infected and swollen and abnormal looking.
I immediately phoned my wife and asked her what happened to our son.
She confessed that a few days earlier, her girlfriend volunteered to give him a bathe because my wife was really tired after a long day’s work (she is a substitute teacher and works night shifts in a warehouse).
Wife’s girlfriend has never cared for a child before let alone a boy let alone an uncircumcised boy, so she had no idea what the protocol was.
Apparently she googled how to clean under foreskin and stupidly read to pull it back and wash it with soap and water. Well that’s what an adult might do, but baby boys have their foreskin attaches to the glans. During or after puberty, the boy should be the first one to pull it back as part of exploration.
Anyway, she did pull it back and scrubbed it really hard because she thought it was so dirty it stuck together. Again this woman is an IDIOT.
My wife since then has just been putting Vaseline and neosporin instead of taking him to a doctor!!
I immediately took him to an urgent care center and they told me that he has an infectious growth there that needs to be treated with antibiotics.
I am so angry that my wife let this happen. She basically agreed to let her circle fiend who has zero child care experience bathe my son which led to his current serious injury.
What I’m wondering is would I be justified in keeping my son indefinitely while I begin working with my lawyer to draft a divorce agreement?
I also don’t want this woman (the girlfriend) ANYWHERE near my son whatsoever even if she gets partial custody. And would be I be a jerk if I used this incident as evidence of negligence? I recorded the whole conversation where she admitted to me what happened (and yes it’s legal to do so where I live).
Please help me think this through because I am incredibly frustrated!!! And angry! My poor son :(
YSK if you're using a mask with glasses, applying a few drops of dish soap to the inside of your lens and rubbing with a cloth, will keep you fog free for 7 hours ish.
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